romance issues

Why am I even still on OKC?

Weirdest pick up line ever.

At least you're getting messages. The last one I got was two months ago and it was "you're ugly, don't talk to me".

I dunno, I'm convinced that a good 95% of the messages I get are from people who don't even read my profile. They'll skim it at best, but most of the time I feel like it's just, "Oh you're a marginally attractive human female. I'll send you a four-word-long message and hope you respond." It's the most pathetic strategy on the planet. I mean I get that people on OKC have trouble meeting people in real life (hence the reason they're on there), but just sending the word "hey" to every single female that looks mildly doable gets you fucking nowhere. And then they send me shit like what I posted above and it's like, what are you even doing?

Hooray. I had a visitor last night on okc. Turns out she was a 20 yr old mother of 1........ Just my luck.

JimmyB wrote:

Hooray. I had a visitor last night on okc. Turns out she was a 20 yr old mother of 1........ Just my luck.

.................wait, what??

A user on OK cupid checked out my profile. She hit like. She has a kid.

oo yeah, I got thus sent to me

JimmyB wrote:

A user on OK cupid checked out my profile. She hit like. She has a kid.

Ok, thanks for the sarcastic explanation

I can read, so I understood what you said the first time, but what really threw me was the fact that you complain all the time about how people don't like you, girls won't date you, etc. etc.; but because this girl has a kid, you're going to pre-judge her and determine she's not worth your time? Maybe she's a super awesome person who likes trains and things.

Sorry, that kind of hypocrisy irritates me, but you keep doing you.

She's got a point, dude.

Once again. Getting flirted with by a woman with two kids. Ugh,why do I get the ones with kids? I'm not judging, I just don't want Nor want responsibility for kids yet. I want them eventually though. I really don't get why she is interested in me- she's the exact opposite of myself.

I'm deathly serious, she's a joker.
She goes "clubbing", I play open mics or hang out with my model railroad buddies.
She's bigger than me as well- height and frame.

I don't care for looks, but I feel nothing besides friendship and don't want to " lead her on". I've been led on at least three times, it hurts. I never want to cause that kind of pain.

JimmyB wrote:

Once again. Getting flirted with by a woman with two kids. Ugh,why do I get the ones with kids?  I'm not judging, I just don't want Nor want responsibility for kids yet. I want them eventually though. I really don't get why she is interested in me- she's the exact opposite of myself.

I'm deathly serious, she's a joker.
She goes "clubbing", I play open mics or hang out with my model railroad buddies.
She's bigger than me as well- height and frame.

I don't care for looks, but I feel nothing besides friendship and don't want to " lead her on". I've been led on at least three times, it hurts. I never want to cause that kind of pain.

Good lord, kid. Complain some more, why don't ya?

pleasepassthesoup wrote:

JimmyB wrote:

Once again. Getting flirted with by a woman with two kids. Ugh,why do I get the ones with kids?  I'm not judging, I just don't want Nor want responsibility for kids yet. I want them eventually though. I really don't get why she is interested in me- she's the exact opposite of myself.

I'm deathly serious, she's a joker.
She goes "clubbing", I play open mics or hang out with my model railroad buddies.
She's bigger than me as well- height and frame.

I don't care for looks, but I feel nothing besides friendship and don't want to " lead her on". I've been led on at least three times, it hurts. I never want to cause that kind of pain.

Good lord, kid. Complain some more, why don't ya?

There are a few certainties in the world- gravity, water is wet and JimmyB pointing the finger at someone else without looking at the three pointing right back

TGAFAN25 wrote:

pleasepassthesoup wrote:

JimmyB wrote:

Once again. Getting flirted with by a woman with two kids. Ugh,why do I get the ones with kids?  I'm not judging, I just don't want Nor want responsibility for kids yet. I want them eventually though. I really don't get why she is interested in me- she's the exact opposite of myself.

I'm deathly serious, she's a joker.
She goes "clubbing", I play open mics or hang out with my model railroad buddies.
She's bigger than me as well- height and frame.

I don't care for looks, but I feel nothing besides friendship and don't want to " lead her on". I've been led on at least three times, it hurts. I never want to cause that kind of pain.

Good lord, kid. Complain some more, why don't ya?

There are a few certainties in the world- gravity, water is wet and JimmyB pointing the finger at someone else without looking at the three pointing right back

It's almost impressive.

Entertainment guaranteed :p

Okay i tried to start somethng. She just wants someone to be her children's father....and to take care of her. Well, I tried at least.

pleasepassthesoup wrote:

JimmyB wrote:

Once again. Getting flirted with by a woman with two kids. Ugh,why do I get the ones with kids?  I'm not judging, I just don't want Nor want responsibility for kids yet. I want them eventually though. I really don't get why she is interested in me- she's the exact opposite of myself.

I'm deathly serious, she's a joker.
She goes "clubbing", I play open mics or hang out with my model railroad buddies.
She's bigger than me as well- height and frame.

I don't care for looks, but I feel nothing besides friendship and don't want to " lead her on". I've been led on at least three times, it hurts. I never want to cause that kind of pain.

Good lord, kid. Complain some more, why don't ya?

JimmyB wrote:

Okay i tried to start somethng. She just wants someone to be her children's father....and to take care of her. Well, I tried at least.

Well, I tried flirting with one. She posted a photo of her and tulips. I said, "beautiful, and the flowers are nice as well".

classic Jimbo

Let's hope it works out.

JimmyB wrote:

Well, I tried flirting with one. She posted a photo of her and tulips. I said, "beautiful, and the flowers are nice as well".

Good luck. Not a bad "intentionally cheesy" line to break the ice.

Nope. Nothing there, but I got a new rejection reason. I'm too short.

JimmyB wrote:

Nope. Nothing there, but I got a new rejection reason. I'm too short.

Think I got put into the friendzone again
First this woman was acting like she was into me-messaging me first, typing lots of lols and extra letters, seeing if I went places she goes to,etc.
Well last night I asked her honest opinion of me and she said " I think you're a genuinely awesome person you see just saw too hard on yourself. Lighten up and let loose!!!! "
She then said my haircut looks a lot better now-buzz cut

Then I have my honest opinion of her last night " I think you are the most attractive woman I've ever met. You're beautiful inside and outside and I like it. You have an absolutely wonderful soul, and you talking with me has made myself really happy."

And all she said was "awe Thanks"

Pittsburgh area really has no one who fits my type now.