romance issues

Dat's right. Take it easy, baby, it ain't over yet.

So a lot happened this week. She already is posting pictures with the guy she only knows for three weeks on Facebook, and when I told her it wasn't a cool thing to do only two weeks after the breakup, she was mad at me and now she won't talk or even look at me.

Remove her from Facebook and all other social media.

It hurts, I know, but you gotta do it. She can't be part of your life now, and if you remove her it's going to be SO much easier to get over her.

Well, I'm off the market. I met someone on facebook through a really close mutual friend, and really hit it off. We already went out on a date, and we clicked in person, heck I got lost, and she helped me get back on the main road and said she "enjoyed the extra time together". We went bowling, and she said she had a lot of fun. She hugged me a couple times when I dropped her off at her house, and also some shoulder rubs. She even let me play with her hair that night. She's already calling me "Hun", but we're not "facebook official" yet. She was even talking about "future dates" with me.

That's wonderful, man, great to hear!

Have you guys kissed yet?

Not yet, but I think she might want to soon lol.,

you must be excited, bro

JimmyB wrote:

Well, I'm off the market.  I met someone on facebook through a really close mutual friend, and really hit it off.  We already went out on a date, and we clicked in person, heck I got lost, and she helped me get back on the main road and said she "enjoyed the extra time together".  We went bowling, and she said she had a lot of fun.  She hugged me a couple times when I dropped her off at her house, and also some shoulder rubs.  She even let me play with her hair that night.  She's already calling me "Hun", but we're not "facebook official" yet.  She was even talking about "future dates" with me.

So, it's 'facebook Official now' with the guy she knows for a month. She texted it because she didn't want me to Read it on Facebook first. God I hate her

I would remove her from facebook (that was the first thing I had done to my ex)...and try to not check her facebook page..

Dude! Remove her from Facebook. Do it.

Yeah, I would have done that with my ex...had she not deleted her facebook first.

God, trying to date with anxiety isn't fun. At least she's understanding about what I'm fighting...and she's cool with my hobbies...so she's a keeper.

I actually talked to a guy on OKC I wanted to meet. He seemed pretty interested and I gave him my number, but I haven't heard from him since. Oh well, boyfriends are expensive anyway.

Congrats, Jimmy. Never thought I'd see the day!

JimmyB wrote:

Well, I'm off the market.  I met someone on facebook through a really close mutual friend, and really hit it off.  We already went out on a date, and we clicked in person, heck I got lost, and she helped me get back on the main road and said she "enjoyed the extra time together".  We went bowling, and she said she had a lot of fun.  She hugged me a couple times when I dropped her off at her house, and also some shoulder rubs.  She even let me play with her hair that night.  She's already calling me "Hun", but we're not "facebook official" yet.  She was even talking about "future dates" with me.

:'))))

Congrats, Jimmy that is great news. I know you have been kinda down so glad she came along.

As for me, Rosemary is my spirit animal right now... "Maybe someday they're gonna love me back to life."

Sorry to hear that, man. I think a bunch of us have taken a few hits along the way.

Maybe the universe sacrificed some of our happiness to grant Jimmy a chance.

Harbortown wrote:

Sorry to hear that, man. I think a bunch of us have taken a few hits along the way.

Maybe the universe sacrificed some of our happiness to grant Jimmy a chance.

If that's what it takes, I'm okay with it.

And it's over. She stopped talking to me, and only said "yeah sure" for a second date.  She basically lost interest in me.

 Maybe I'm not supposed to date. Maybe I'm not supposed to be happy.

JimmyB wrote:

And it's over. She stopped talking to me, and only said "yeah sure" for a second date.  She basically lost interest in me.

 Maybe I'm not supposed to date a woman. Maybe I'm not supposed to be happy.

I just keep striking out. I can't stay happy and no woman would give me a chance to prove to them I am worth a date. Plus I keep seeing her face everywhere, and on every woman I have an interest in. She messed me up badly and I don't know how much more I can take before I just stop trying.,

That's when you pour it into songwriting, buddy

My girlfriend broke up. She was perfectly happy, went on a one-week sports trip to Ireland with a (woman) friend, came home, and broke up because we are too different. Doesn't want to talk, or put this thesis to any form of empirical test... That sucks. We had great plans and we agree on how the future of the relationship should be. So I really don't get it...

I'm still striking out like crazy....

crsmsi wrote:

My girlfriend broke up. She was perfectly happy, went on a one-week sports trip to Ireland with a (woman) friend, came home, and broke up because we are too different. Doesn't want to talk, or put this thesis to any form of empirical test... That sucks. We had great plans and we agree on how the future of the relationship should be. So I really don't get it...

Sorry to hear that, man. That sucks.

Harbortown wrote:

Sorry to hear that, man. That sucks.

Thank you! It's been a while, but it still sucks...