romance issues

Would it be creepy at all if I were to get a cologne I found my girlfriend liked from wayyyyyy back in a 2010 Facebook entry? It sounded fucking awesome in the first place, but I'm debating with myself whether that would be a good idea or not.

Annnnd there's my spaz question of the day.

Kosburn59 wrote:

Would it be creepy at all if I were to get a cologne I found my girlfriend liked from wayyyyyy back in a 2010 Facebook entry? It sounded fucking awesome in the first place, but I'm debating with myself whether that would be a good idea or not.

Annnnd there's my spaz question of the day.

if you like the cologne anyways, i don't see why not!
although, a little context is needed here. were you dating back when she posted about it? are you facebook stalking your own girlfriend? did she like the cologne on its own, or because of someone she dated who wore it? because then it would be weird for you to wear the same cologne.

Technically Facebook-stalking - my only justification being that I like seeing where people come from or how they've looked at things in the past, just out of curiosity. She just said every guy should wear it, it's called Burberry Brit Cologne. No previous boyfriends involved.

I need a good cologne anyways. I had Dirty English by Juicy Couture forever, but I ran out and I've been thoroughly depressed with myself because I've forgotten what fancy smells like.

hahah, well i guess most people probably do that on Facebook anyways, so who cares. i would do it, too, haha.

then go for it! good cologne can be mmm sexy

I'm convinced. haha, thanks Steph. ^_^

I wear this:


It makes me want to make out with myself.



A cute guy needs to ask me on a date. One that doesn't live in Ireland

I talked to Frank Turner at merch tonight. That counts as a date...right?

NeverTrustAJunkie wrote:

I wear this:


It makes me want to make out with myself.



A cute guy needs to ask me on a date. One that doesn't live in Ireland

I talked to Frank Turner at merch tonight. That counts as a date...right?

See, I hope this cologne makes me want to do that as well! hahaha!

That's as good as a date should be. Frank's friggen hot (says the heterosexual male)

It's good because it's like, if you go out to a bar and don't get lucky, it doesn't matter cus you got yourself to come home to. So then you don't care if you get lucky (since you will have yourself no matter what happens) and then that in turn gives you confidence to talk to people without care which THEN actually gets you lucky cus girls are turned on by confidence. It's a weird little circle of life.

NeverTrustAJunkie wrote:

I wear this:


It makes me want to make out with myself.



A cute guy needs to ask me on a date. One that doesn't live in Ireland

I talked to Frank Turner at merch tonight. That counts as a date...right?

haha. yeah sweetie, that totally counts as a date!

ah, my stepmom got me this one awhile back:



but i don't really like it.

i have this one though and i love it:



i like things that smell more fruity, i hate floral, overly perfumey scents

Unless my sense of smell is wrong, I've always thought of Dreams as fruity. I don't like overly flower-y stuff either. I also have Lime Sugar, but I like the Incanto better. Used to use CK1 back in the day. All girls and boys smelled the same. It was weird.

In other weird confessions... concert smell is like an aphrodisiac. I don't know why. It's really made up of sweat, cigarettes, heat and beer. Go figure.

oh, well, maybe that version of Incanto smells more fruity! i might like it then.

haha. someone should bottle concert smell!

Yeah it's like a fruity/candy smell.

I am also one of those girls that likes Cool Water on guys. But not when they bathe in it. That's just gross. I've danced with men I shouldn't have just because of that smell And also because of beer goggles. Boo.

haha i'm not sure what specific cologne i like on a guy, but when it's a good cologne, it's mighty seductive. haha...beer goggles...that's a whole nother discussion...

With cologne and honestly nearly any aspect of attracting the opposite sex, the key is to feel comfortable and confident with it...

If you find a cologne you like and you're confident wearing, the actual scent doesn't matter as much as how you feel when you wear it....

Be confident, believe in yourself, be who you are and love yourself.... That's the most attractive to anyone regardless of your sex.

rkirkpatrick25 wrote:

With cologne and honestly nearly any aspect of attracting the opposite sex, the key is to feel comfortable and confident with it...

If you find a cologne you like and you're confident wearing, the actual scent doesn't matter as much as how you feel when you wear it....

Be confident, believe in yourself, be who you are and love yourself.... That's the most attractive to anyone regardless of your sex.

you're so right

Thank you Steph!

If people just loved themselves more the world would be a much happier place. We always tend to focus on the negatives when we could just continue to develop our positive aspects and work through the negatives while trusting that other people can see the good things too.

i completely agree. i'm terrible about being confident in myself, but i know how true that is, and i can tell other people they need to be more confident!

It's really hard to do...

I'm not amazing at it, but if everyday you just do the things that you know you should be doing- school, work, being kind to others, making healthy decisions... Slowly but surely you string a few days together and you can be really proud of who you're becoming, so long as you're being who you want to be....

When you're proud of who you are, other people will want to be involved too

No one is amazing at it. Rock stars may seem confident but you can be sure almost all of them are nervous before every single show. It's about having faith in yourself! Which can only occur if you push yourself to do things and see how it comes out.

I totally agree with being proud of yourself first. It's like, you're all of the sudden attractive.

oh, you guys are so wise

Yeah. If only some people would listen and benefit from our wisdom!

*cough* JimmyB *cough*

rkirkpatrick25 wrote:

*cough* JimmyB *cough*

that sounds like a bad cold that won't disappear, are you okay?!

lol you're great steph, I think I'll get over it soon though.. thanks though!