romance issues

it's because you don't listen to us

plugga wrote:

it's because you don't listen to us

Some of the suggestions I have gotten include to stop liking everything I currently like and become someone else.

dude, I am the opposite of everyone in this city.
I don't like going to clubs, I don't like reggae music or ska music or whatever they play here, no one knows the gaslight anthem, most of my high school friends remind me as the "weird one" with pink hair and the last time I had a boyfriend from my city I was in elementary school but you don't see me constantly complaining because I have learned to make friends. My "being different" is one of my best characteristics, I am confident with what I am and my friends can see that!

that is all, you should just learn not to take yourself too seriously and start caring less about people that don't treat you as they should.

just jack off mate. you'll feel better.

Labhras wrote:

just jack off mate. you'll feel better.

Better do it twice a day. In your case.

plugga wrote:

it's because you don't listen to us

This!!!!!

IrishNameAndAnInjury wrote:

plugga wrote:

it's because you don't listen to us

This!!!!!

YEP.

Quit bitching, Jimmy. Seriously.

I have a feeling this will be used a lot today!

well, today i got hit in the head wit ha frying pan...got a blackened eye..guess no one will eveer love me now, huh

What, I seriously tried. I have seriously tried.....every girl is either "Not interested" "Lesbian(had that answer a couple times), not wanting a relationship right now, or just wants to stay friends....I think it is actually me that no one wants. Same with highschool probably....I was an outcast, with maybe 4 friends....and the victim of everyone's abuse.

So DO something about it instead of complaining on an internet forum.

I tried...I have tried forever...I am just about ready to accept the fact I can never change.

seriously, make plans for your life, find a job and move if necessary.

JimmyB wrote:

I tried...I have tried forever...I am just about ready to accept the fact I can never change.

Nope! You are only 20, so you can't say you have tried forever. You are practically a baby. Everyone changes as they get older and grow up. Some people just have to work at it a little. Everyone can improve who they are if they just try!

JimmyB wrote:

I tried...I have tried forever...I am just about ready to accept the fact I can never change.

Seems to me you've already accepted that. Which is probably why it's so difficult for you to accomplish anything. You seem to think you're gonna fail before you even try.

We scared him away again.

I do fail before I try things. I am once again stuck in the friendzone. No big deal, every girl I meet sticks me in the friendzone. Probably because I am hardly attractive.

JimmyB wrote:

I do fail before I try things. I am once again stuck in the friendzone. No big deal, every girl I meet sticks me in the friendzone. Probably because I am hardly attractive.

I don't want to hear this! La la la la la la la la la!

You can't fail before you try something. If you never try, you don't fail or succeed, and you aren't even living. You are just...there. Doing nothing. You should want better for yourself, Jimmy. Judging by the bazillions of comments and heaps of advice we have all give you, we all want better for you too. Why don't you realize this?

Or because you think girls like the "poor me, my life suck ". My guess you're the kid who writes sad lines from songs, as Facebook statuses, in hopes that a girl will see it and be like "omg I'm falling in love with this guy". News flash jimmy that stuff doesn't work. It just makes you look pathetic and weak.

God forsake, you don't even see how stupid and pathetic your signature makes you seem.

I'm sick and tired of hearing how much your life suck, how you can't get a girl, and then how this forum seems to keep going into a loop over you. Once you realise there are other things in life than girls you will be so much happier.

JimmyB wrote:

I do fail before I try things. I am once again stuck in the friendzone. No big deal, every girl I meet sticks me in the friendzone. Probably because I am hardly attractive.

You fail because everything about you has something desperate about it. If your contacts with girls go as I suspect they do, it's not a surprise that they don't want you.

I have already said what my contacts with girls are like, Conversation (I am bad at Conversation) Dry Humor, and just talking.

What's everyone's favorite love scene from a movie (porn doesn't count)?

Mine is "Out of Sight." I'm sure the fact George Clooney is in it helps, but I just love the tension in the bar and how silly they are in the bedroom.

mingus wrote:

JimmyB wrote:

probably my face is to blame, or my weight, or my lack of humor, or my inability to make conversation.

Or how about your attitude?

I officially give up as well...

THIS

plugga wrote:

dude, I am the opposite of everyone in this city.
I don't like going to clubs, I don't like reggae music or ska music or whatever they play here, no one knows the gaslight anthem, most of my high school friends remind me as the "weird one" with pink hair and the last time I had a boyfriend from my city I was in elementary school but you don't see me constantly complaining because I have learned to make friends. My "being different" is one of my best characteristics, I am confident with what I am and my friends can see that!

that is all, you should just learn not to take yourself too seriously and start caring less about people that don't treat you as they should.

it's a shame JimmyB won't bother ACTUALLY reading what you wrote, Ilaria, he could learn a lot!

Steph. I thought for sure you'd have a favorite love scene to aid my attempt at changing the subject. I am disappointed. Not enough to bring out a frying pan, but still.

HorribleCrowe wrote:

Labhras wrote:

just jack off mate. you'll feel better.

Better do it twice a day. In your case.

hahahaha

Debonair wrote:

Or because you think girls like the "poor me, my life suck ". My guess you're the kid who writes sad lines from songs, as Facebook statuses, in hopes that a girl will see it and be like "omg I'm falling in love with this guy". News flash jimmy that stuff doesn't work. It just makes you look pathetic and weak.

God forsake, you don't even see how stupid and pathetic your signature makes you seem.

I'm sick and tired of hearing how much your life suck, how you can't get a girl, and then how this forum seems to keep going into a loop over you. Once you realise there are other things in life than girls you will be so much happier.

hahaaha

mingus wrote:

JimmyB wrote:

I do fail before I try things. I am once again stuck in the friendzone. No big deal, every girl I meet sticks me in the friendzone. Probably because I am hardly attractive.

You fail because everything about you has something desperate about it. If your contacts with girls go as I suspect they do, it's not a surprise that they don't want you.

seriously. you gotta stop wanting it so bad.