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| Subject: Re: romance issues Mon Mar 05, 2012 12:53 pm | |
| I think the boy is feeling guilty for falling for me. I feel like I did something wrong, but I know it's all on him if he knows he has a girlfriend but is also very generous with hugs when it comes to me.
But holy fucking shit, I feel like bricks have been dumped on my heart. I just want to see him again because the way he made me feel was ... it's so hard to explain and articulate into words. But I liked how he made me feel. And I miss it so. |
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Labhras The Navesink Banks
Posts : 1766 Join date : 2011-06-02 Age : 35 Location : Dublin
| Subject: Re: romance issues Mon Mar 05, 2012 1:17 pm | |
| - steph wrote:
- i dunno about "hot", but i hope he offers to stir your hot chocolate with his special supersized swizzle stick like a gentleman
that sounds quite painful. also i think i should be congradulated for not saying "only if you lick it clean, like a lady", cus that would've been disgusting. everyone would've been like "oh man you went too far" and then someone would have made a complaint to an admin i woulda been kicked outta the forum. thankfully though i didn't say that. redskynight stuff like that happens all the time. ppl meet and find each other attractive, that stuff doesn't stop happening just cus one person is in a relationship. besides, hugs don't count as cheating
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JimmyB The Navesink Banks
Posts : 5619 Join date : 2010-10-27 Age : 32 Location : Pennsylvania-The land of the Three Rivers.
| Subject: Re: romance issues Mon Mar 05, 2012 1:22 pm | |
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Labhras The Navesink Banks
Posts : 1766 Join date : 2011-06-02 Age : 35 Location : Dublin
| Subject: Re: romance issues Mon Mar 05, 2012 1:23 pm | |
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NeverTrustAJunkie The Navesink Banks
Posts : 4685 Join date : 2009-10-22
| Subject: Re: romance issues Mon Mar 05, 2012 1:36 pm | |
| Gyrating hugs might be crossing a line! LOL I think you can hug when you're in a relationship, but it depends on the feelings behind it. I only said what I said because you mentioned he fell for you too. Do you know that for sure? It's almost irrelevant I guess because he's got a girlfriend and that's reason enough to stay away. Unless he comes to you and says they broke up, but you're out of town so how would you even know it to be true, etc. Getting to know someone long distance when you already have a crush on them is just asking for a huge amount of trouble anyway. I also agree you can be attracted to someone when you're in a relationship, but there's a difference between thinking "He/She's hot" and having it end there versus "He/She's hot, I think I'll spend a lot of one on one time with them and then give them my phone number, followed by a lengthy intimate hug." And I thank you for not saying the lick comment | |
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plugga The Navesink Banks
Posts : 8156 Join date : 2011-01-03 Age : 34 Location : UK
| Subject: Re: romance issues Mon Mar 05, 2012 1:48 pm | |
| if he likes you and he's not breaking up with his girlfriend then idk. Wouldn't trust him. | |
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| Subject: Re: romance issues Mon Mar 05, 2012 2:11 pm | |
| - NeverTrustAJunkie wrote:
- Gyrating hugs might be crossing a line! LOL I think you can hug when you're in a relationship, but it depends on the feelings behind it.
I only said what I said because you mentioned he fell for you too. Do you know that for sure?
It's almost irrelevant I guess because he's got a girlfriend and that's reason enough to stay away. Unless he comes to you and says they broke up, but you're out of town so how would you even know it to be true, etc. Getting to know someone long distance when you already have a crush on them is just asking for a huge amount of trouble anyway.
I also agree you can be attracted to someone when you're in a relationship, but there's a difference between thinking "He/She's hot" and having it end there versus "He/She's hot, I think I'll spend a lot of one on one time with them and then give them my phone number, followed by a lengthy intimate hug."
And I thank you for not saying the lick comment The way he and I were communicating was just blatant and obvious and gah. And yeah. Like, I've definitely hugged a lot of people, in relationships or not. The intent behind these hugs were completely different. He also had his hand on my back for a little while... - plugga wrote:
- if he likes you and he's not breaking up with his girlfriend then idk. Wouldn't trust him.
Urgh, yeah. I just feel like everything I thought I knew has just been thrown out the window and I hate it. |
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Harbortown The Navesink Banks
Posts : 6781 Join date : 2011-04-13 Age : 33 Location : yes
| Subject: Re: romance issues Mon Mar 05, 2012 2:42 pm | |
| Mackenzie, I'm sorry to hear about your situation because I've kinda been there. I hope you get a happy ending! | |
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Guest Guest
| Subject: Re: romance issues Mon Mar 05, 2012 3:58 pm | |
| Thanks, John.
I was honest with him about it and I think he's feeling remorseful and is saying we're just friends. I'm annoyed that he's not honest, but I understand that he doesn't want to hurt anyone. In turn, it hurts me and himself. |
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Labhras The Navesink Banks
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Labhras The Navesink Banks
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| Subject: Re: romance issues Mon Mar 05, 2012 4:08 pm | |
| ooo! ooo!! romance issue! romance issue!!! | |
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steph The Navesink Banks
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steph The Navesink Banks
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steph The Navesink Banks
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| Subject: Re: romance issues Mon Mar 05, 2012 5:21 pm | |
| - Labhras wrote:
- ooo! ooo!! romance issue! romance issue!!!
WELL, SPILL IT! | |
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Labhras The Navesink Banks
Posts : 1766 Join date : 2011-06-02 Age : 35 Location : Dublin
| Subject: Re: romance issues Mon Mar 05, 2012 5:47 pm | |
| - steph wrote:
- Labhras wrote:
- ooo! ooo!! romance issue! romance issue!!!
WELL, SPILL IT! some nice looking lady called jennifer just popped up on my internet. apparently she's single and in my area! she called me handsome and thinks we have alot in common! what should i do what should i do??!?! | |
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plugga The Navesink Banks
Posts : 8156 Join date : 2011-01-03 Age : 34 Location : UK
| Subject: Re: romance issues Mon Mar 05, 2012 5:50 pm | |
| - Labhras wrote:
- steph wrote:
- Labhras wrote:
- ooo! ooo!! romance issue! romance issue!!!
WELL, SPILL IT! some nice looking lady called jennifer just popped up on my internet. apparently she's single and in my area! she called me handsome and thinks we have alot in common! what should i do what should i do??!?! bend ------- https://thegaslightanthem.forumotion.com/viewtopic.forum?t=3962 | |
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