romance issues

sometimes I feel like Tom Waits said it best when he said "As long as you want it so bad, it's not going to happen"

oldgospelchoir wrote:

sometimes I feel like Tom Waits said it best when he said "As long as you want it so bad, it's not going to happen"

Word. Or, to quote 40 year old virgin, "Don't put the pussy on a pedestal".

Or Bert McCracken "You'll never find it if you're looking for it." But Waits and 40YOV work too

Well I finally gave up on her...It is one sided, and the trying was destroying me. Great...now it is the exact opposite..there is a girl who likes me...But I do not like her....Why does God/Love/fill in your choice...hate me!?!?

you guys think too much and over react too easily.

oldgospelchoir wrote:

you guys think too much and over react too easily.

This is true. Things aren't that complicated actually. Comes down to: "You don't like me? Ok bye." or "I don't like you? Ok bye." or "You like me too? Awesome!" You gotta live in reality though and sometimes you don't want to see it because it isn't what you like. Try to live in reality. It's not always great, but it's not always bad. Good night and God Bless.

Well...Been a day since I gave up...I mean I think it is okay...I am not as miserable as before...I just feel empty...

It'll be okay, Jimmy. Things will get better, you'll see. Check out my response to your post in the Spam thread. Some words of movie wisdom are waiting for you there.

I don't know if it was just the giving up, or added with the weather,,,,,but I feel like complete Crap today....

JimmyB wrote:

I don't know if it was just the giving up, or added with the weather,,,,,but I feel like complete Crap today....

lighten up dude. you are only 19

Yeah you might feel like crao now but there's plenty of girls out there.

Also you should get new jeans.

I agree with Oldgospelchoir, lighten up Jimmy - ur 19, enjoy the world around you!

And as Plugga said, there are plenty of other girls out there man, start lookin!

another guy told me he likes me but of course this always happens when I like someone else. I live in a permanent dawson's creek episode, love my life.

It might not seem like it right now, but really, the sirens they come and the sirens they go.

plugga wrote:

another guy told me he likes me but of course this always happens when I like someone else. I live in a permanent dawson's creek episode, love my life.

Hehe, yep. You go through life loveless and dateless for months and as soon as you set your eyes on someone they come swarming up on you. More of a luxury problem but god it's frustrating.

I wish we could choose what TV show we'd want to be part of.

I wish my life were a permanent Community episode. Or better yet, a permanent World of Warcraft game. Then I could just put this poor girl on /ignore instead of having to deal with telling her I don't like her that way.

well I feel like I am stuck in a Springsteen Song. Although, not his rockers...his more darker quieter songs, like the price you pay.

Come on now Jimbo, chin up. You're not gonna get better by sulking about it.

plugga wrote:

another guy told me he likes me but of course this always happens when I like someone else. I live in a permanent dawson's creek episode, love my life.

float the idea of a threesome with them. boom problem solved.

Labhras wrote:

plugga wrote:

another guy told me he likes me but of course this always happens when I like someone else. I live in a permanent dawson's creek episode, love my life.

float the idea of a threesome with them. boom problem solved.

he's nice but he's not as attractive as the guy I like, I'm sorry

Show us pictures of both of them.

I'd rather cut my arms and feed them to the corgis.

Boooooooooo!