romance issues

JimmyB wrote:

I asked her to breakfast. She said "sure, let me check my schedule". I'm screwed.

Well in all honesty, I usually say that to pretty much anyone who asks me to do something, cause I have a crazy schedule (I have a 9-5 job, then I am also a freelance make up artist and translator, so it's like having 3 jobs; then I have to work out at least 3 times a week; AND I am always taking up courses and sh*t) so please do not read into EVERYTHING she says cause some people just mean what they say.

Try to get to know her before making any sort of assumptions about her.

Well, we're going walking together tomorrow. Plus we still have a breakfast together reserved for some other time.

You're doing great Jimmy!

JimmyB wrote:

Well, we're going walking together tomorrow. Plus we still have a breakfast together reserved for some other time.

Walking together is always great, because talking side by side is less intimidating than looking at one another across a table. And you can accidentally bump into each other.

I think she friendzoned me

Why? What happenend?

She didn't seem all that interested in me when we went walking. She kept avoiding my eyes, and when I mentioned that I enjoyed doing stuff with her, she kind of nervously laughed saying "yeah"

JimmyB wrote:

She didn't seem all that interested in me when we went walking.  She kept avoiding my eyes, and when I mentioned that I enjoyed doing stuff with her, she kind of nervously laughed saying "yeah"  

How much do you want this girl?

A lot. The world.

The way you talk about her, I'm sure she would be lucky to have someone so perceptive and intelligent. But hold off, if you don't think things are going the way you planned. I think you're reading into her signs a little too much, people get busy and they put stuff off even though they want to do it. People will always tell you that it works out in the end, well, most of the time it actually does!

Don't thick twice, it's alright.

Any update?

Once a freaking gain. Friend zoned. I hate everything right now. I don't even want to freaking date. I'm obviously meant to be single and alone in life, since womenhave no romantic interest in me.

Elsie is going to be getting a hgell of a lot of play for the foreseeable future

JimmyB wrote:

Elsie is going to be getting a hgell of a lot of play for the foreseeable future

But unless you want to wait for Jesus to bring you together, you'll just have to keep tyring. I know it sucks, but the right one will come along at the right time. When she does, you'll both know it.

I think I might pull a Brian and write my feelings out into a song. Then again, no one ever listens to my music or reads the lyrics. So why should I even bother ?

JimmyB wrote:

I think I might pull a Brian and write my feelings out into a song. Then again, no one ever listens to my music or reads the lyrics. So why should I even bother ?

As I don't usually hang out here, send me a link to your music/lyrics.

JimmyB wrote:

I think I might pull a Brian and write my feelings out into a song. Then again, no one ever listens to my music or reads the lyrics. So why should I even bother ?

If you're really into "pulling a Brian", I think you'll do it anyway cause he's always said he does it for himself and not for the world

Hang in there, man, the world is rough and we all have our struggles. I think you might wanna focus on yourself and on learning to be by yourself, overcoming the self-loathing.

JimmyB wrote:

I think I might pull a Brian and write my feelings out into a song. Then again, no one ever listens to my music or reads the lyrics. So why should I even bother ?

The last time I was really in the gutter due to heartache, I wrote 7 songs in the span of a few weeks. I didn't expect anyone to hear them and at this point only a handful of people has heard them, but that's not the point. Music is therapy and if you love it you'll write and sing regardless.

https://www.facebook.com/Jimmy-Braum-345208378838259/ Steady Now Steady now, that is my page with at least all my covers.

JimmyB wrote:

Elsie is going to be getting a hgell of a lot of play for the foreseeable future

Jimmy, you went on two dates with this girl.... You've got to be level headed about dating....

Pretty every time you talk about someone, they're either the greatest human in the world or the worst human in the history of earth...

Nobody is perfect, few people are truly evil....

Stay calm, stay collected, don't over-extend too early and keep seeing different people.... Most dates don't work out....

LIKE IT FUCKING MATTERS STEPH you come here like twice a year, that's tons of material you can catch up on each time

BUT ITS THE HIGHLIGHT OF MY YEAR.

ITS NOT STEPH'S FAULT THIS PLACE HAS DRIED UP FASTER THAN LIL' STEPH