romance issues

Go out again? I don't know if that's too obvious an answer or if you were looking for something more detailed but I think that's the clear course of action.

Go out with her.

I've staryed writing anti love songs to deal with my feelings.

I went out on the second date with that one woman this last Friday.

Oh, how this thread never changes.

I'd say it's getting better and better

So I found a guy on OKC who seemed like a really good match for me (84% with quite a few common interests) and he listed not only Gaslight but also THC and MATZ in his favorite music section, so I shot him a quick message, but I went back today to check on it and his profile has been deleted. Like wow.

There are so few people on that site I find worth messaging, and on the rare occasion that I do, they never respond or they up and disappear.

Oh well.

Well then fuck that guy, you'll find someone nice eventually.

Harbortown wrote:

Well then fuck that guy, you'll find someone nice eventually.

I <3 you John. You always know the perfect thing to say!

I met someone on okc as well. We had a 96% match even. We were talking fine, and then one day she typed "I'll see you around" and never logged in again. She was beautiful even.

Anyway, sent a "good morning and have a wonderful day" message to someone. They responded "you to" so that may be an okay sign. This was after they messaged me first the other night to Apologize for accidentally deleting a comment. So that may good that at least they are not creeped out by me.

JimmyB wrote:

We had a 96% match even. She was beautiful even.

Heavens to Betsy! Hopefully she doesn't exit, stage left!

Rose1991 wrote:

Harbortown wrote:

Well then fuck that guy, you'll find someone nice eventually.

I <3 you John. You always know the perfect thing to say!

I love you too, I'm sure in an alternate universe we're married and have kids, but in this one we'll just have to settle for being mutual advisors and online friends.

Harbortown wrote:

Rose1991 wrote:

Harbortown wrote:

Well then fuck that guy, you'll find someone nice eventually.

I <3 you John. You always know the perfect thing to say!

I love you too, I'm sure in an alternate universe we're married and have kids, but in this one we'll just have to settle for being mutual advisors and online friends.

This might be the cutest thing i have heard all day.

Damn, I told the girl I have been dating that I was starting to like her and she says she is still trying to figure it out and doesn't have any idea. Then I told her I feel like she is interested sometimes but other times she isn't and she told me that is how she is and she pulls away and then goes back and keep repeating that over and over. She said it was a way to protect herself cause she has been in all bad relationships. I think the only thing I can do now is leave the ball in her court. I'm done chasing.

Harbortown wrote:

Rose1991 wrote:

Harbortown wrote:

Well then fuck that guy, you'll find someone nice eventually.

I <3 you John. You always know the perfect thing to say!

I love you too, I'm sure in an alternate universe we're married and have kids, but in this one we'll just have to settle for being mutual advisors and online friends.

I can't tell if you're being sweet or sarcastic, but either way, I'll take it.

But in all seriousness Jimmy I do hope you find what you're looking for. I don't know why I'm getting all serious but I am.

I'm not sure there's a wealth of model train enthusiast girls who won't be intimidated by his intelligence out there.

Every woman I've ever been interested in has always said "we're friends. "

Forgive me if this has been posted here before.

confession: Literally the best part of this place for me is whenever JimmyB posts

If I'm allowed half a minute of whining, I'm mostly frustrated with my enduring complete lack of romance and all the issues that come with it. Which I attribute at least in part to being a queer guy in a fairly small city who mostly listens grunge, punkrock and metal and dresses like a really cheap '90s throwback xD (flannels over everything, loose cargos, the occasional Nirvana shirt, that kinda stuff).

The rest of it is all on me, though xD

EDIT: Rose, that thing is genius. Just about sums up the mentality of some of these guys :p

Why don't you move to a bigger city? Everybody loves a good gay-guy-moves-and-finds-loves-story.

Harbortown wrote:

Why don't you move to a bigger city? Everybody loves a good gay-guy-moves-and-finds-loves-story.

Still live at home, still in my last year of high school due to some scholastic screw-ups when I was 16 and angstier and whinier than I am still today :p

Also, I'm mostly flat broke, and even for next year student rooms in Ghent or Brussels are not exactly within the reach of my budget so I'll be commuting to uni and back probably. Which means with a bit of luck I'll be spending a fair amount of time in a bigger city, but I won't be moving there anytime soon. Might help some though, at least.

Another evening, another case of rejection. Well in this case, two in the same night. Both said that I "was handsome, but not attractive them". What does that even mean?!?! Every girl I've asked out has said that to me! Whatever, makes me want to start drinking- heavily.

You can be objectively good looking but still not be someone's type.