romance issues

plugga wrote:

NeverTrustAJunkie wrote:

plugga wrote:

I promise girls will appreciate it too haha

Truth. I used to be all "Oh how sweet! He trusts me enough to confide in me!" Now, if a guy starts in about his baggage/complaining at the beginning of things, he's immediately thrown into the Friend Zone for life.

Yep exactly, it's just annoying and it makes me feel weird

*hi5*

What I've found is that in the end they just want to bitch but don't want to do anything to change their situation, annnd they could give a rat's ass when something's bugging you (falls under that "they just want your attention" category"). So meh to all that!

well speaking of this...Weirdest dream ever, I was playing guitar on a stage with a full rock and Roll band, and somehow the girl I was Crushing on, actually kissed me and yeah, that is all that really stuck out...dreams predict the future huh?

NeverTrustAJunkie wrote:

plugga wrote:

NeverTrustAJunkie wrote:

plugga wrote:

I promise girls will appreciate it too haha

Truth. I used to be all "Oh how sweet! He trusts me enough to confide in me!" Now, if a guy starts in about his baggage/complaining at the beginning of things, he's immediately thrown into the Friend Zone for life.

Yep exactly, it's just annoying and it makes me feel weird

*hi5*

What I've found is that in the end they just want to bitch but don't want to do anything to change their situation, annnd they could give a rat's ass when something's bugging you (falls under that "they just want your attention" category"). So meh to all that!

I'm going to quote everything, happened to me some time ago and I swear to god this guy also stopped talking to me because of this. PSYCHOPATH MUCH?

You want to think "Oh he's just scared and ran away cus he admitted all these deep feelings to me. He really likes me." Eh. He probably just found a new girl to complain to. Maybe yeah, he does like you. But not enough, and P.S. if disappearing is how they show their feelings then who needs it.

I swear- movies ruin us until we grow up and see love is actually almost nothing like it. Drama sells movie tickets. In real life, drama is a friggin' hassle that wastes lives. *shakes fist at John Hughes* *RIP*

^aww. i think a small part of me still hopes my life will turn out like a john hughes movie. ferris bueller is one of my all time favorite movies.

steph wrote:

i think a small part of me still hopes my life will turn out like a john hughes movie.

I watched The Breakfast Club so much during middle school, and I always assumed I would someday experience that in high school.....ha. yeahhhhh, right. Couldn't have been more wrong! I miss middle school delusion.

haha. i have to admit, right before high school started, i totally thought it would be like Clueless. i had that movie memorized. sadly it was nothing like it haha. Clueless never mentioned Mormons haha.

JimmyB wrote:

well speaking of this...Weirdest dream ever, I was playing guitar on a stage with a full rock and Roll band, and somehow the girl I was Crushing on, actually kissed me and yeah, that is all that really stuck out...dreams predict the future huh?

there you go just pick up a guitar. boom problem solved.

Being in a band would certainly up your chances!

Sixteen Candles killed me: don't worry about having to make an effort and actually speak to the guy you like. He'll magically come over to your house on your birthday and kiss you.

I always joked that if my high school life was like any movie, it was probably Heathers and I was Winona.

haha, yeah, heathers was much more logical and likely to happen. kill off your frenemies and fall in love with a psycho yet gorgeous young christian slater.

Exactly. Why do you think I'm telling JimmyB not to waste his time on that girl? LOL I know a psycho when I see one. Well, now I do anyway!

^haha. i like you's hah.

*stayawayfromthepsychosJimmyB!*

haha...oddly enough..whenever I sleep I get the same dream...At least it is nothing nightmareworthy.

^it's called an orgasm...

I giggled.

haha

Well, Got another girl saying I am "Sweet", not sure whether that is a good thing or not

There's a guy that buys coffee every morning at the gas station I work at and last week I was cleaning under the fountain drink machine and I said good morning like I always do, and he stopped what he was doing and said, "You are beautiful." And now every morning he finds me to say hi. I think it was the hairnet I was wearing that did it.

Is he boyfriend material?

JimmyB wrote:

Well, Got another girl saying I am "Sweet", not sure whether that is a good thing or not

Yes, Jimmy, sweet is a good thing. There are much worse things to be called!

JimmyB wrote:

Well, Got another girl saying I am "Sweet", not sure whether that is a good thing or not

sweet could mean sweet like in aww you're sweet and asexual, like a little brother.
or, aww, you're sweet and i totally wanna hump you.

i won't bet on which one it is. but seriously, girls like a guy who takes charge (too a certain extent) so quit waiting and hoping for sweet girl to make a move. JUST DO IT. i think i owe Nike a dime now...

steph wrote:

JimmyB wrote:

Well, Got another girl saying I am "Sweet", not sure whether that is a good thing or not

sweet could mean sweet like in aww you're sweet and asexual, like a little brother.
or, aww, you're sweet and i totally wanna hump you.

ACCURATE. We need context.

Harbortown wrote:

Is he boyfriend material?

Well, I'll be 19 in a few days, he's around 26, 27 I believe. Sooo, naaahhhhhhh.

plugga wrote:

steph wrote:

JimmyB wrote:

Well, Got another girl saying I am "Sweet", not sure whether that is a good thing or not

sweet could mean sweet like in aww you're sweet and asexual, like a little brother.
or, aww, you're sweet and i totally wanna hump you.

ACCURATE. We need context.

JimmyB, these two ladies are dead on.